Solitude, according to wordweb, is a state of social isolation. What my little brain tells me of this is – To be solitary, one has to log off FB/Twitter accounts, look for a place where there is no second person and should indulge in something for self. This ideally should mean that solitude is a state of body and not of soul. Right? Wrong!
Physically being away from people is not exactly solitude. Possibly it just means that one is lonely. And such lonely thinkers are very much prone to ugly thoughts which have the knack of opening a gift present packed with “depression” without their knowledge.
- Unreasonable questions:
Pic says it all. The moment such a question strikes is the moment in which you’ve stepped on a landmine. Congratulations, until you know the answer you cannot budge.
- Spooks that can scare the hell out of you.
I don’t generally believe in ghosts but when I’m alone or it is dark outside, I do.
My honest advice is to master at least one religious prayer based on your trusts. Or if it is beyond you, you may want to ponder mythologies or myths in them. For example, what ornaments Sita must have been wearing during their exile for her to throw them down to ground?
- Why relationships can be disastrous some times
The most useless discussions one can have with self are about relationships. And quite dangerous too. Because they affect the self-esteem of the thinker. When alone, some people become extremely critical about their partners and eventually end up reaching the summit of self-love. Some others keep blaming themselves for being bad judges and bad decision makers thus belittling and hating themselves.
The dreadful question that is proven to have ruined happiness of several curious-but-not-risk-taking souls. Wondering what is on the road not taken is not probably wrong. But assuming it is ALWAYS brighter will only ruin the peace of mind. And will certainly make the current place seem dark.
- How to change the world.
With due respects to all the people who really brought some change to the world after solitary contemplations, I feel it is very likely for one to get lost in this thought process. One of the reasons for this could be:
IMO, this kind of isolation does more bad than good to anyone. The best way to enjoy solitude is to keep the negative thoughts away and have at least one of your senses engaged. Touch the bed, sleep in the bliss. Eat your favorite item, devour the blissful taste. Listen to your favorite music, enjoy the blissful tunes. Read a good book or go visit a nice place, look out for the bliss in them. Smell the rain, smell the aroma of filter coffee in your hand and enjoy your solitude- it’s a bliss!